On Desires
If X is hankering after women, money, prestige, whatever it is, have compassion. No judgment. He will not find true peace as long as mind is not under control. This is for everybody.
Inner self and Tapa
First face the inner self and practice TAPA with all strength of being. Increase Yajnya. Release all negative feelings and resentments. Very quickly you will be filled with love. This is the greatest of all healing agents.